Comments on: The Biting Beaver Memory Hole… http://www.herdwatching.com/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/ Just another ImposingEdifice site Fri, 01 Apr 2011 04:37:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Batman http://www.herdwatching.com/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-117 Batman Wed, 01 Jul 2009 17:12:44 +0000 http://www.herdwatching.com/items/date/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-117 It's fine to discuss the use of pornography in the development of boys raised by single mothers, but let's not kid around, here - "raging feminists" or not, single moms with chips on their shoulders are hardly qualified to comment on sexual needs in growing adolescent boys - unless of course their unconscious program is to emasculate those young men in their state of becoming -- Regardless of the objective merits or dangers of being exposed to too much porn, many women fail to understand that the sort of focus on sexuality which is desirable to them as women, is not and will never be the sort of sexuality which is acceptable to men - this is precisely why an upbringing balanced by the presence of both sexes is useful to children. Wishful thinking about this will not make saner or more balanced males - Denying the fact that most men enjoy viewing pornography will not make it go away, and denying that masculine sexuality is focused on short term rewards as opposed to feminine sexuality which is focused on establishing of stable commitments, will merely serve to make growing men feel badly, inept, humiliated, and further emasculated - as if the 60's didn't do enough as it is. A free suggestion: Get a man to have a word with your boy, or get several masculine archetypes ( hopefully not dehydrated types like the ones who hang out at your veggy food co-op ) and stay out of his sexual interests - unless it is your desire to screw him up. Read a good book, like something by Robert Bly - a good mythological primer on the fundamental needs of the masculine archetypes, and stop trying to make girls out of your boys. If you follow this advice, you will discover that your progeny need not turn into unhappy sociopaths -- Never forget that we compulsively hunt down in others the very things which need addressing within ourselves. (Written by a male rescued from single motherhood) It's fine to discuss the use of pornography in the development of boys raised by single mothers, but let's not kid around, here – "raging feminists" or not, single moms with chips on their shoulders are hardly qualified to comment on sexual needs in growing adolescent boys – unless of course their unconscious program is to emasculate those young men in their state of becoming — Regardless of the objective merits or dangers of being exposed to too much porn, many women fail to understand that the sort of focus on sexuality which is desirable to them as women, is not and will never be the sort of sexuality which is acceptable to men – this is precisely why an upbringing balanced by the presence of both sexes is useful to children.
Wishful thinking about this will not make saner or more balanced males -
Denying the fact that most men enjoy viewing pornography will not make it go away, and denying that masculine sexuality is focused on short term rewards as opposed to feminine sexuality which is focused on establishing of stable commitments, will merely serve to make growing men feel badly, inept, humiliated, and further emasculated – as if the 60's didn't do enough as it is.
A free suggestion: Get a man to have a word with your boy, or get several masculine archetypes ( hopefully not dehydrated types like the ones who hang out at your veggy food co-op ) and stay out of his sexual interests – unless it is your desire to screw him up.
Read a good book, like something by Robert Bly – a good mythological primer on the fundamental needs of the masculine archetypes, and stop trying to make girls out of your boys.
If you follow this advice, you will discover that your progeny need not turn into unhappy sociopaths –
Never forget that we compulsively hunt down in others the very things which need addressing within ourselves.

(Written by a male rescued from single motherhood)

]]> By: no I don't think so http://www.herdwatching.com/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-116 no I don't think so Sat, 30 May 2009 01:44:05 +0000 http://www.herdwatching.com/items/date/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-116 Why do people (and I use that word loosely) equate sex drive with viewing porn, cheating on their spouses, molesting children, or whatever? (True story, on that last. Apparently, pedophile priests molest children because their "healthy sexual drives are inhibited" by the Church.) I thought sex drives were about fucking. None of this stuff is strictly about fucking. Even cheating on your wife is more about lying than fucking. Why do anti-feminists defend this garbage? If this kid were entertaining a young lady in his bedroom and BB caught them and had a shit fit and tried to deprogram him with Dworkin, I'd be right there with you. That's not what happened here. The kid is exhibiting obvious signs of mental disturbance and all you can do is rake her across the coals for being a good mom and being concerned. And does she not have a right to raise her own children with her own values? *You* would certainly argue that about yourself, if she got on your case for deliberately raising your kids (if you have any) to love viewing porn. What is this kid going to miss out on if he never views porn again? Nothing. Know how I know? I've viewed porn. Lots of it. I'm as sexual a person as you could ever ask for, and porn is a joke. It's fake, exaggerated, anti-woman and teaches no one anything useful about sexual technique. If they ever changed it to be a more realistic depiction of human sexuality it would cease to be porn and become erotica instead. Then men would stop watching it because, God forbid, it'd be woman-friendly too. If you want to defend crap, knock yourself out, but I bet you're lousy in bed, and so is every other person who got up in arms about what BB said here. She's freaking out about a kid with obvious PTSD from years of abuse and you're zeroing in on the porn debate. I hope you *don't* have kids, because you'd be a totally unfit parent. Stay single, get AIDS, die young... do the world a favor. Why do people (and I use that word loosely) equate sex drive with viewing porn, cheating on their spouses, molesting children, or whatever? (True story, on that last. Apparently, pedophile priests molest children because their "healthy sexual drives are inhibited" by the Church.) I thought sex drives were about fucking. None of this stuff is strictly about fucking. Even cheating on your wife is more about lying than fucking. Why do anti-feminists defend this garbage?

If this kid were entertaining a young lady in his bedroom and BB caught them and had a shit fit and tried to deprogram him with Dworkin, I'd be right there with you. That's not what happened here. The kid is exhibiting obvious signs of mental disturbance and all you can do is rake her across the coals for being a good mom and being concerned. And does she not have a right to raise her own children with her own values? *You* would certainly argue that about yourself, if she got on your case for deliberately raising your kids (if you have any) to love viewing porn.

What is this kid going to miss out on if he never views porn again? Nothing. Know how I know? I've viewed porn. Lots of it. I'm as sexual a person as you could ever ask for, and porn is a joke. It's fake, exaggerated, anti-woman and teaches no one anything useful about sexual technique. If they ever changed it to be a more realistic depiction of human sexuality it would cease to be porn and become erotica instead. Then men would stop watching it because, God forbid, it'd be woman-friendly too.

If you want to defend crap, knock yourself out, but I bet you're lousy in bed, and so is every other person who got up in arms about what BB said here. She's freaking out about a kid with obvious PTSD from years of abuse and you're zeroing in on the porn debate. I hope you *don't* have kids, because you'd be a totally unfit parent. Stay single, get AIDS, die young… do the world a favor.

]]> By: Normalchick http://www.herdwatching.com/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-115 Normalchick Thu, 28 May 2009 07:06:59 +0000 http://www.herdwatching.com/items/date/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-115 Hi I'm a girl, and I jerk off to pornography. All sorts. I hope your son grows up to be more then a pussywhipped momma's boy. And I hope he reads everything you've posted here, realizes that you are a psychopath (if he hasn't already), and continues on with his life. Fuck, and I hope he never introduces any of his girlfriends to you. Hi
I'm a girl, and I jerk off to pornography. All sorts.

I hope your son grows up to be more then a pussywhipped momma's boy. And I hope he reads everything you've posted here, realizes that you are a psychopath (if he hasn't already), and continues on with his life.

Fuck, and I hope he never introduces any of his girlfriends to you.

]]> By: penny http://www.herdwatching.com/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-114 penny Mon, 20 Apr 2009 18:58:36 +0000 http://www.herdwatching.com/items/date/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-114 this actually is perfectly sensible but don't worry, it will never catch on maybe just help a few women most people are like you this actually is perfectly sensible

but don't worry, it will never catch on

maybe just help a few women

most people are like you

]]> By: Del http://www.herdwatching.com/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-113 Del Tue, 10 Mar 2009 11:07:46 +0000 http://www.herdwatching.com/items/date/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-113 Biting Beaver is clearly clinically insane. The sooner her son's grow up and leave her the better. What a fruit loop! Biting Beaver is clearly clinically insane. The sooner her son's grow up and leave her the better. What a fruit loop!

]]> By: Visual Adultery? The evils of cute, naked humans - a quick hit… http://www.herdwatching.com/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-112 Visual Adultery? The evils of cute, naked humans - a quick hit… Thu, 01 May 2008 22:37:37 +0000 http://www.herdwatching.com/items/date/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-112 [...] Let’s accept that you love them enough to try and deal with it. I am still baffled about why you would allow someone that unstable to back you into a corner and put you in a position of having to hide a completely normal sexual drive. We have seen this in the radfem community where some have used this as a weapon to (imho) abuse their children. [...] [...] Let’s accept that you love them enough to try and deal with it. I am still baffled about why you would allow someone that unstable to back you into a corner and put you in a position of having to hide a completely normal sexual drive. We have seen this in the radfem community where some have used this as a weapon to (imho) abuse their children. [...]

]]> By: Hey dude, you’re Mom totally wishes you were dead! : Herd Watching http://www.herdwatching.com/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-111 Hey dude, you’re Mom totally wishes you were dead! : Herd Watching Thu, 09 Aug 2007 06:10:24 +0000 http://www.herdwatching.com/items/date/2007/08/08/the-biting-beaver-memory-hole/#comment-111 [...] I have often wondered idly what kind of damage the more insane members of the radical feminist fringe are doing to their children. We have had some glimpses into that world of course and it must be a horrifying one. Children raised to accept the fantasy world of what amounts to full blown paranoia. Children raised to believe in vast undercurrents of hatred behind every aspect of life. Children raised to deny their gender. Children raised to deny science. Children raised to feel they must constantly apologize for their very thoughts. Children raised ashamed of their very genders. “I've talked until I'm blue in the face, I've grown angry and yelled, I've cried when I was alone and when I was in front of him. I've had him read Dworkin, my site, and other places (namely OAG's site) and I still can't unseat this problem. He can recite feminist literature all day long, he can understand the tenets, the ideas behind it, how it links together but he will not allow this knowledge to stand in the way of his porn use.” - the Biting Beaver talking about her son [...] [...] I have often wondered idly what kind of damage the more insane members of the radical feminist fringe are doing to their children. We have had some glimpses into that world of course and it must be a horrifying one. Children raised to accept the fantasy world of what amounts to full blown paranoia. Children raised to believe in vast undercurrents of hatred behind every aspect of life. Children raised to deny their gender. Children raised to deny science. Children raised to feel they must constantly apologize for their very thoughts. Children raised ashamed of their very genders. “I’ve talked until I’m blue in the face, I’ve grown angry and yelled, I’ve cried when I was alone and when I was in front of him. I’ve had him read Dworkin, my site, and other places (namely OAG’s site) and I still can’t unseat this problem. He can recite feminist literature all day long, he can understand the tenets, the ideas behind it, how it links together but he will not allow this knowledge to stand in the way of his porn use.” – the Biting Beaver talking about her son [...]

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