Hey dude, your Mom totally wishes you were dead!

I have often wondered idly what kind of damage the more insane members of the radical feminist fringe are doing to their children. We have had some glimpses into that world of course and it must be a horrifying one. Children raised to accept the fantasy world of what amounts to full blown paranoia. Children raised to believe in vast undercurrents of hatred behind every aspect of life. Children raised to deny their gender. Children raised to deny science. Children raised to feel they must constantly apologize for their very thoughts. Children raised ashamed of their very genders.

“I’ve talked until I’m blue in the face, I’ve grown angry and yelled, I’ve cried when I was alone and when I was in front of him. I’ve had him read Dworkin, my site, and other places (namely OAG’s site) and I still can’t unseat this problem. He can recite feminist literature all day long, he can understand the tenets, the ideas behind it, how it links together but he will not allow this knowledge to stand in the way of his porn use.” – the Biting Beaver talking about her son

Is this common? No. Of course not. It’s not even common among radical feminists I am sure. However it is happening… and the results are not going to be pretty. If we’re lucky, it will just be a therapy bill and one more girlie-man blubbering in what they will insist is a “art studio”. If we are unlucky they will succeed if creating the very monsters their twisted fantasies have always feared their male children would be.

“More than anything else? I know, in my heart of hearts that, knowing what I know now, if I had it to do over again I would have had that abortion.”- the Biting Beaver talking about her son

Consider what it must be like having a parent (mother in this case) who has built their entire self image around a fantasy victim world where all the villains look like you (same gender)? She scrutinizes you every move, every comment, every action… looking for the signs of violence and contagion she is sure you carry. In addition to considering you to be a evil creature by your very nature and gender she additionally hates everything you represent… the time of her life when you were conceived and the man who is your father. You are, she insists, the unwanted child of a rape. She spends her free time and energy looking for ways to live her life totally without males, without you, in effect. Only with all the males (including you) gone can she feel safe.

If you are Brandon and your mom is known as “The Biting Beaver” this isn’t theoretical. This is your life. This is whats shaping your self image.

“know that there will likely come a day where my son coerces a young woman into sex (rape) and there isn’t a damned thing I can do about it.” – the Biting Beaver talking about her son

To make matters worse you are now a adolescent. Your perfectly natural sexuality is strong in your mind and like millions of teens before you you might want to see a *gasp* naked girl. Not only that, but you might want to see a naked girl who is *hot*. Maybe even watch some fucking.

“with every orgasm he will further solidify his own hatred of and superiority over, women” – the Biting Beaver talking about her son

You’re mom, predictably, freaks out. She chastises you for having a human sex drive and forces you to read from authors who all tell you the same thing. You are evil (male), born of evil (males) and your inevitable impact will be to hurt and abuse the women of the Earth. Some of them probably 9since your Mother sure does) blame your gender for what they see as the coming full scale destruction and oppression of all life on earth.

Does Brandon have a chance in hell of a normal, healthy self image? I doubt it. The quotes all through this post by his Mother show you what he has grown up with, what he must feel about himself…

“The thing is that his existence is never, has never, and will never be, more important than the safety and well being of anyone else.”- the Biting Beaver talking about her son

There isn’t any way to sugar coat this really. Brandon’s mom is simply crazy. She may actually be clinically incapable of raising him (or her other sons) in anything like a healthy way. It is also entirely possible that she may harm him. Brandon may actually not be safe under her roof.

  • She already wishes he were never born.
  • She already believes he will inevitably rape and abuse someone in the future.
  • She has already stated that she values him less than the safety (as she sees it) of complete strangers (women).

Given the emotional distress and lack of balance the Biting Beaver has shown… given her guilt about his continued existence and her wish she had prevented his life… given her belief that he is worth the same or less than any random stranger…. I would be shocked to find out that there had been a “terrible tragedy” someday. She might hurt him directly or poor Brandon may someday do to himself what his mother has been letting him know all along she wished to to do him. Erase himself. What we can be sure of is that if something bad does happen Biting Beaver will blame the same people she always does, men.

“Every time I think about it I refer to this fetus as a ‘parasite’, a ‘tick’ and other things I won’t even mention.” – the Biting Beaver speaking of a later pregnancy

The already delicate state of Biting Beavers mind set and grip on reality is not at all being helped by the voices she is choosing to surround herself with. Far from being a moderating influence, the quote below is the kind of thing she hears constantly from her “peers”.

“But he is not and the way he treats his girlfriend, his sister, his grandmother, and myself make me hate myself for not pouring him down the sink at Planned Parenthood or grabbing a rusty coathanger and doing the job myself even if it killed me.” – the anonymom talking about her son

There is hope. Brandon is 15 his mom tells us. In a few short years he will with any luck escape and get out to college. He will have a chance to hear ideas that are not filtered through his mothers hatred and meet females who are willing to treat him as a human being and not a violent oppressor. He will be able, finally, to feel what it is like to be free to be himself without having to hide it from a constant companion who blames him for a portion of her own internal pain. He will also get the chance to surf the Internet and see that not everyone felt the way his mother does. That some people knew, like he knew, that she was crazy. That it didn’t have to be that way.

If he makes it that far, he has a chance.

p.s. The Biting Beaver became quite famous for this topic. Here are some related links…

That about covers it for now.

[tags]biting beaver, heart, insanity, paranoia[/tags]

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  1. I feel sorry for her child. Really sorry. Any woman who publicly writes that about her child in this manner is mentally ill and needs help like yesterday.

    I am a woman and I am more afraid of women like her than I am of any man.

  2. Good post, but please, please fix “You’re mom” (twice) and “If your Brandon”. Somehow it taints the whole thing. :)

  3. Soulhuntre –

    While this might seem very amusing, this is also linked to a series of DDoS attacks that are of major concern to anybody who blogs, even if most of the people targeted happen to be complete assholes. (Though I wouldn’t put Feministe, who were just brought down this morning, in that category.) While nobody on the more sex-pos side of the blogosphere has been hit yet, it most certainly could happen.

    I’ve been asking people not to make direct hotlinks to any of the sites being targeted, especially not Heart’s blog, “The Margins” (womensspace.wordpress.com). I’ve seen two sites (Wikipedia and Feministe) now get either severely trolled or DDoS attacked within hours of linking to that site. Anonymous is clearly following these links upstream, looking for a challenge. I also recommend not hotlinking to Encyclopedia Dramatica or 4chan(dot)org, either. Text URLs are probably safe.

    The reason I feel so strongly about this is that these links are a danger, both directly to ones own blog and to whoever you link to in turn.

    Your post above is loaded with hazardous links – direct portals to “Anonymous” – and you’ve in turn linked to some places I blog and comment at, and have seen some low-level trolling as a result. This concerns me.

    I’d prefer that you take down those hotlinks, or at least drop Strangest Alchemy, Ren Ev, and BPPA from your list if you’re going to keep those links.

    Thanks,
    IACB

    Text URLs are safe, but not hotlinks

  4. Um Dewd–you might want to learn the difference between you’re (you are) and YOUR (as in your mom)

  5. Seriously, “You’re mom” is the assertion that you are mom, “Your mom” is… well… your mom. You did it in the new post as well!

  6. Thanks for the comments – I fixed the title of the post and one of the instances later on. I left the error in the link so that we don’t puke 404 errors all over.

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